By P Mutuma
When someone you love deeply decides to go silent on you, no calls, no texts, just blueticks — it hurts in ways words can’t explain.
You start questioning everything — “Did I do something wrong?” “Did they stop caring?”
But sometimes silence isn’t about you. It’s a reflection of them.
When love becomes one-sided, learn to pull back with grace. Don’t chase where peace no longer lives. Don’t beg for attention from someone who chooses to ignore your presence.
Real love communicates. Real love doesn’t disappear without explanation. If they value you, they’ll reach out — if not, let their silence speak the truth.
Understanding Silence:
Silence can be a coping mechanism for some people, but it can also be hurtful and confusing for others.
- It’s essential to recognize that silence can be a choice, and it’s not always about you.
Moving Forward:
- Focus on nurturing relationships with people who communicate openly and honestly with you.
- Prioritize your own emotional well-being and take care of yourself.
- Practice forgiveness, but also prioritize setting healthy boundaries.
Self-Reflection:
- Use this experience as an opportunity to reflect on your own communication style and needs.
- Consider what you can learn from this experience and how you can grow as a person.
Healing:
- Allow yourself to feel your emotions and process your grief.
- Engage in activities that bring you joy and help you heal.
- Remember that healing is a journey, and it’s okay to take your time.
Remember:
You deserve to be treated with love, respect, and kindness in any relationship.
- Don’t settle for anything less.Protect your heart. Heal quietly.
And when you rise again, rise stronger and wiser
PurposefulLove
#RealConnection
#EmotionalGrowth
